My Friends and Family Hate My Boyfriend

Hi friends!! Happy Monday! Here are the stories of the week!! 1. Am I the asshole for not letting my friends use my backyard for their wedding because they do not want me to bring a "plus one?" 2. Am I the asshole for not wanting to follow my mom’s rules if I’m paying half the rent? 3. Am I the asshole for refusing to let my sister-in-law stay at my house after she kept criticizing my home? 4. My friends and family hate my boyfriend and it's starting to effect my life. Thank you so much for listening!!!