Ep. 52 Tanya Markul: Finding The Courage To Be Ourselves

Of all our relationships, sometimes the most difficult one we have is with ourselves. After all, no one experiences our mistakes, traumas, struggles and challenges more deeply and more vividly than we do. In a society that is fuelled by our dissatisfaction, that needs us to conform to near-impossible standards, it can be difficult to like ourselves enough to fan our own flames – or at the very least to be at peace with who we are. And after twelve months of a near-global lockdown in response to the global pandemic, we have never been face-to-face with ourselves more than we are now. How do we find the courage to face all that we need to face, to let go of all that we need to let go of, and to nurture all that we need to nurture, so that we can step into who we came here to be? Tanya Markul is the author of the hugely successful The She Book. Her beautiful poetry and prose gives the reader the permission they need to turn and face that which is most daunting – themselves. And in doing so it frees them to recognise all that they are, all that they are not, and all that they can be. As she writes: “The wall between me feeling stuck and my dream life is thinner than I think. And it doesn’t take a giant leap to get there, but a gentle adjustment of perspective, a small step in the other direction.” And as we discuss, sometimes that small step can be as simple as taking a breath. Useful links: www.instagram.com/tanyamarkul  www.tanyamarkul.com

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