99. How to fully embrace being single (while also dating)

In this episode, you'll learn about the most important thing you can do while single if you want to enjoy dating and learn how to detach from the outcome: embracing your life without a partner. I talk about how to date NATO (not attached to the outcome) and the major steps you can take to lower the stakes in your dating life. I speak from experience as I share the reflection questions I used to dream up an amazing life for myself without a partner... while looking for one simultaneously. Don't skip this one if you're single and want to shift your mindset. QUESTIONS: * If I don’t like it here, where should I live?  * How do I want to spend my time? What do I want my lifestyle to be?  * How will I make my life meaningful without a romantic relationship? * What kind of friend and daughter do I want to be? * How will I show up for the people in my life?  * How do I want to spend my money and what are my financial goals as a single person? * If I don’t meet anyone in the next few years, will I choose to have kids on my own?  * If I don’t get married, what does the best version of my life look like? Get Clara for Daters: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/clara-for-daters/id1667355360  Submit a dating dilemma: https://forms.gle/xCmAWvDPGJdr3rFz9  Slide into my DMs on IG: https://www.instagram.com/dating.intentionally/ Follow on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dating.intentionally My Identify Your Needs course: http://bit.ly/4e2nwGC  Get my free dating FAQ guide: https://intentionally.dating/gift/ Read more on the blog: https://intentionally.dating/blog-posts/  Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Dating.Intentionally  Rate on Apple: https://t.ly/JJgpP  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices