The Illusion of Control: Finding True Safety in the Unknown

In this solo episode, Hillary dives deep into one of the most universal challenges of the human experience: our desire to control the external in order to feel safe, worthy, or at peace internally. This conversation explores the subtle yet powerful ways our subconscious patterns try to protect us—through perfectionism, control, people-pleasing, or over-responsibility—only to reinforce the very fears we're trying to escape. Hillary shares a powerful reframe: what if you’re not off path, not be...