Episode 162: An Adoptee's Story - The Blessing; the Heartbreak

Summary: In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve into the world of adoption through the eyes of Mea Han Fajardo, an extraordinary international adoptee and the visionary behind FostAdopt Connections. Join us as we explore Mea's deeply personal journey and how she has transformed her experiences into a powerful platform, fostering meaningful opportunities and connections for children in foster care and group homes. Throughout the conversation, Mea opens up about the unique challenges and joys of being an adoptee, offering valuable insights that shed light on the intricacies of the adoption process. Her heartfelt reflections inspire empathy and understanding, as we gain a profound appreciation for the resilience and strength of those touched by adoption. Mea's passion for making a positive impact in the lives of vulnerable kids shines through, and we express our sincerest gratitude for her willingness to share her remarkable story with our listeners. So tune in and join us in this moving discussion as we celebrate the power of human connection and the transformative influence of compassion and love in the world of adoption. Resource Links: FostAdopt Connections 20 Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew - Nightlight Link to book: Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew: Eldridge, Sherrie: 9780440508380: Amazon.com Connect with us! Email: [email protected] Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast Instagram: @FosteringVoices Web: www.fosterarizona.org   Chapter Markers: 00:01 - Open 00:04 - On Today's Episode 00:33 - Welcome Mea Han Fajardo 01:33 - Mea's Story - Adopted at 10 02:58 - The Life-Long Experience 03:48 - We don't talk About it 04:01 - Gratitude and Lonliness 05:34 - The Space to Grieve 07:01 - Grieving with Intent 08:02 - How to Grieve 09:41 - Being Allowed to Grieve 10:32 - Normalizing Grief 11:29 - Breaking Open 12:50 - Grieving with Others 14:31 - Unlocking Grief 17:09 - The Mystery of Being an Adoptee 18:17 - Sympathizing with Adoptees 20:45 - Sharing my Adoption Story 22:38 - Reflection for Compassion 23:59 - An Adult Relationship with Parents 25:13 - Searching for Relationship 26:50 - Don't Hold on so Tightly 27:01 - Being Prepared when your Kid Starts Searching 27:44 - We Accept Your Family 29:42 - Loving Myself 31:26 - The Takeaway 32:27 - On Behalf of Adoptive Parents 33:25 - Resources 35:04 - Closing