043: Hoes in Hoboken Sex Party: The Role of Substances in Enthusiastic Consent, Exercising Your "No", and Getting Out of Your Head to Squirt

In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up about Vee’s latest sex party that she hosted with J, including squirting, enthusiastic consent, substance use, six-handed massages, listening to your body, and so much more….Our top five episodes according to the numbers! (1:44)The benefits of having new people at a small sex party. (12:16)Squirting: how to overcome the threshold and let go. Waterproof blankets, sensory deprivation, hydration, trust and muscle memory. (15:16)Setting expectations fo...