415. Jaime Filer: Navigating Trauma, Coaching, and Self Healing

In this powerful episode of "Grow or Die", I sit down with fitness coach and mental health advocate Jaime Filer. Jaime shares her personal story of overcoming significant trauma, including the loss of her father, and how these experiences have shaped her approach to coaching and personal development. We dive deep into the power of emotional healing, the importance of behavioral changes in coaching, and how to harness trauma as a transformative tool for growth. Jaime also reflects on building strong relationships, cultivating self-awareness, and integrating biohacking techniques to manage anxiety and stress.    Timestamps: - [00:00] - Episode teaser. - [3:40] - "Your following does not matter" - Jaime discusses the importance of referrals and meaningful relationships in building a successful coaching business. - [4:44] - The significance of empathy in coaching. - [7:23] - Exploring trauma in the bodybuilding industry and why it attracts broken people seeking validation. - [10:04] - Jaime shares how she began healing from her eating disorder by focusing on external habits before diving into deeper emotional work. - [13:07] - A life-changing experience with psychedelics: how Jaime used ketamine and psilocybin to gain perspective and shift her priorities in work and relationships. - [16:32] - The shift from "quality time" to "quality energy" in relationships. - [20:59] - Overcoming desire and staying focused on personal growth. - [24:10] - Jaime reflects on how emotional and mental healing improved her business, relationships, and self-awareness. - [29:00] - Grieving loss: Jaime discusses how her father's death shaped her mindset on healing and moving forward. - [35:03] - Turning emotional pain into purpose and how it shaped Jaime’s coaching approach with clients. - [39:52] - Jaime’s biohacking goals: how she regulates anxiety using techniques like cold plunging, meditation, and mindset work. - [42:16] - Anxiety explained: Jaime talks about the difference between living in the present versus anxiety about the future or past. - [48:51] - Jaime shares how she transitions from work to personal life and the importance of setting boundaries between the two.   Links & Resources: Follow Jaime On Instagram: @jaim91 Work With Jaime: https://link.trm-engine.com/widget/form/dO75X81zale0h0x4qBjW Train Revenue Multiplier: https://go.trainerrevenuemultiplier.com/ FREE Anti-Gym Anxiety E-book: https://ebook.jaimefiler.com/free-ebook Follow Me On Instagram: @jmihaly_ Follow "Grow or Die" On Instagram: @growordiepodcast Work With Me: https://www.togethermorefit.com/founder Join Substack For More Exclusive Content: https://justinmihaly.substack.com/ Join Patreon For More Exclusive Content: https://patreon.com/JustinMihaly?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink Sign Up For The Together More Elite Mentorship: https://togethermorefit.com/elitepurchase