The Evolution of a Divorce Lawyer to Imago Healer (Part 2) (Igor Meystelman)

In part 2 of our episode with attorney-turned-Imago-healer Igor Meystelman, Igor shares the nitty gritty of how Imago therapy works, explaining and drawing from his own journey and experience from the dialogs with his wife. Imago relies on the fundamentals of human behavior and our deep and innate desire to grow and form healthy human connections.By sharpening and heightening our intrinsic senses of perception and intuition, Imago allows us to put what we already know, into thought and words. With practice, empathy becomes our initial reaction to any conflict or to any person, and supersedes our reactive and impulsive tendency to be insensitive, critical or harsh.To fully appreciate this episode, be sure to listen to part 1 found here: https://hopetorecharge.com/episode/the-evolution-of-a-divorce-lawyer-to-imago-healer, in which Igor shares the journey of how he got to Imagoland. We previously mentioned how he saw many couples pursuing divorce but after a fateful and explosive conflict with his wife, he discovered Imago Therapy, which helped his conquer obstacles in his own marriage and exponentially strengthen the bond between himself and his spouse.Although its power has the latent ability to overcome tremendous barriers, heal years of unintentional abuse and gain true wisdom, it is most effective when both participants are willing and ready to grow together, to heal and unite. In unimaginable ways, Imago provides the critical tools needed to mend years of chronic dispute and allows each participant to finally feel what their partner has felt all along. In their continuing journey, both participants can adapt new methods of truly understanding their spouses in a healthy and loving way and achieve a true love that comes from a place of safety, deep understanding, empathy and trust.If you need more support in your mental health journey please reach out to us in our private Facebook group. We also offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better!—————————————————————————Connect with Igor:https://www.relationshipreimagined.comFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100006067605298IG: https://www.instagram.com/dmd_conversation/Igor's Podcast on Spotify:https://open.spotify.com/show/0wghT0Q150cP7hovP0BHLV?si=dd1746c660574dc1Igor's Podcast on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/dating-marriage-and-divorce-conversations-dmd/id1575285240—————————————————————————Topics Discussed:Spousal Validation with Imago TherapyPortraying parent-child dialogue rolesNot feeling seenChildhood healingBeing supportive and empathetic to a spouse to encourage harmony and assist healing—————————————————————————Quotes:“When I started crying, she said that was the most validating experience she ever felt.” @Igor Meystelman @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“That, deep craving of, wow, my spouse finally sees me. Not what they want to see, not what they pretend to see. They see, me.” @Igor Meystelman @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“The spouse is meant to play that link that could help you heal” @Igor Meystelman @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge“How can I be supportive of your journey?” @Igor Meystelman @MatanaJacobs #HopetoRecharge—————————————————————————If you need more support in your mental health journey please reach out to us in our private Facebook group. We also offer free 30-minute fitting calls for our coaching program. You do not have to walk through your mental health struggle alone. Because as always, together is better!There is no substitute for a listening ear. 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