Apply Engaged Listening Techniques to Forge Stronger Relationships | Matt Halloran

In this episode, we sit down with Matt Halloran—storyteller, speaker, co-founder of Proudmouth Podcasting, and author of Shut the F Up and Listen. Together, they explore the transformative power of genuine listening in a fast-paced, noisy world. Matt shares how silence fuels creativity, breaks down his five types of communicators and seven types of listeners, and reveals why many of us fool ourselves into thinking we’re good listeners. If you’re looking to improve your listening skills and better understand the nuances of real connection, this episode is packed with invaluable insight and practical advice you can use right away.Timestamps: (03:33) - The power of silence and its link to creativity.(04:20) - Matt shares how ADHD influenced his journey with silence and listening.(09:54) - The difference between active listening and engaged listening.(03:42) - How silence lets others reveal valuable information.(14:42) - Ways people fool themselves into thinking they're good listeners.(16:53) - Humility and learning, using a family moment to highlight engaged listening.(24:07) - Explanation of the water skier, snorkeler, and scuba diver communication styles.(26:25) - Seven types of listening and their practical applications.(29:54) - Matt gives an emotional story illustrating pure, agenda-free listening.(31:43) - Challenges professionals face in listening to learn.(38:13) - Exploration of the overlap between listening styles and adapting in conversations.(42:30) - Reasons for writing his own book on listening.(52:09) - Missed opportunity from not practicing engaged listening.(53:54) - Advice on repairing missed connections and owning mistakes in listening.(55:19) - Matt provides details on where to find his books and connect online.Links and Resources:Matt Halloran | Shut The F UpHomepage - ProudMouthAmazon.com: Shut the F Up and Listen (Audible Audio Edition): Matt Halloran, Matt Halloran, Matthew Halloran: Audible Books & OriginalsMatt Halloran | LinkedInSponsor Links:InQuasive: http://www.inquasive.com/Humintell: Body Language - Reading People - HumintellEnter Code INQUASIVE25 for 25% discount on your online training purchase.International Association of Interviewers: Home (certifiedinterviewer.com)Podcast Production Services by EveryWord Media