Why She Doesn’t Want You (Even If She Loves You) | Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist

In this episode of I Wish You Knew, Adam Lane Smith sits down with Chad and Brittany to explore why love alone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. Whether you’re in a struggling relationship or trying to understand your partner better, this conversation will challenge the way you see emotional safety, communication, and connection. Topics Covered:👉 What led to the breakup: stress, avoidance, and nervous system overload👉 How attachment theory began to shift their mindset👉 Adam’s weekly check-in method for emotionally healthy relationships👉 The rule of not withholding known feelings or concerns👉 Why text communication helps anxious or overwhelmed partners👉 How to rebuild trust through consistent positive experiences👉 The COO/CEO model of emotional teamwork in relationships👉 What to do when you don’t know how to fix a problem👉 The importance of asking deeper, more vulnerable questions👉 Building a legacy of emotional safety for your kids and grandkids👉 Recognizing and reporting emotional unsafety as a core role in relationships If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love 'STOP Doing These 3 Things If You Want Him to Commit'. Watch here:  https://youtu.be/vjVI7qgb2G4  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast:--------------------------------------------------Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/   Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/  Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow   Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod   Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod  Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI  Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809   -------------------------------------------------Follow Adam Lane Smith:--------------------------------------------------Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/  Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg     Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/  Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith  Threads:   https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam  Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro  The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there. Visit: https://iwishyouknew.show/ to learn more about the podcast