19: Introvert vs Extrovert-How this impacts parents connections with teen daughters

Today’s guest is Stacey Horn who is a personal development coach specializing in relationships, and a clinical hypnotist in Colorado. In this episode she discusses the power of introverts and how the different temperaments can affect relationships between parents and their teen daughters. In this episode you will learn: Stacey shares her personal experience of her relationship with her mom as a teen and how she is changing that with her daughter Ray W Lincoln’s book “I’m a Keeper” was recommended to her years ago and she has incorporated his teachings into her professional work She uses Temperament Sorters by Ray W Lincoln and focuses on strengths How do you restore your batteries? Staying in or going out with others Takes introverts longer to process and respond *How do you take in information of the world? Use of five senses is “S” Or through sixth sense is “N” *How do you make decisions? Thoughts and analysis is “T” Or how do I feel or how others may feel is “F” Hear differences in peoples use of language “I think” or “I feel” *Lifestyle preferences “J”-make decision and move on; Clear sense of time “P”-like to keep options open or until all information is in; Different awareness of time Every client completes a temperament key  This helps tailor hypnosis treatment Four temperament categories SP-someone in the moment SJ-sensory and driven; and motivated by responsibility NT-analytical and intuitive; techies; show little emotion but feel it deeply NF-intuitive and feeling; healers, counselors, nurses; more of 6th sense-a knowing vs clearly defined Stacey is a NF (saw lot of gray area) and her mom was SJ (saw things as black/white)-struggled during teen years Wants to help stop the disconnect between mothers and daughters Benefits Short term work Work with individuals then may share results between mother and daughter in how to bridge differences Can refer clients to books to gather more information Shares personal example of her getting involved with substances as teen due to being highly sensitive. She sees similar substance use with her adult clients “using substances to self medicate that sensitivity.”Having this knowledge may help teens prevent them from going through this. If you liked this episode I invite you to subscribe on iTunes to receive the weekly updates. This helps raise the ranking of it, so others who may not have access to mental health services or support in their local community can find it. This podcast is also available on Stitcher, Google Play and now iHeartRadio. Stacey’s Information: www.StaceyHorn.com Does temperament and hypnosis work Book Recommendations: Innerkinetics by Ray W Lincoln- for parents I’m a Keeper I’m Still a Keeper www.raywlincoln.com