Building Confidence Through Self-Validation Cycles
Lessons from a Quitter - A podcast by Goli Kalkhoran - Tuesdays
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The root cause of all of your problems is a lack of self-validation. Let me explain… This isn’t some self-love, woo-woo kind of thing. I want you to think about every one of your maladaptive behaviors: People-pleasing - needing other people to be happy with you so that you can feel good about yourself Perfectionism- needing everything to be perfect so that you can believe you’re good enough High-achiever- needing to keep achieving milestones to feel like you’re worthy Obsessing over what other people think of you - needing other people’s approval so you can believe you’re good. Imposter syndrome- insisting on believing you’re not good enough when all of your achievements prove otherwise And on and on. Every. Single. One comes from your inability to validate yourself.