How do our parents' expectations shape who we are?

No matter whether the expectations our parents have for us are high, low, or non existent, they will inevitably shape who we are and how we approach work, life and relationships. If you had parents who pushed you too hard or not enough, how has that worked out for you? Also, what to do when your relative's many belongings are being stored at your house, and they won't come to pick them up?