S3E2: The Fatherless Epidemic is Affecting Us – With Harry Fon

In this compelling and insightful episode, we delve deep into a pressing issue within the Black/African community. Our guest, Harry Fon, also known as Treize Quatorze, brings his unique perspective as a father of four amazing daughters, residing with his family in a close-knit village near Chicago.    Harry, an IT expert and a Nurse, takes us on a journey through his roles as a family man, community organizer, and advocate. Together, we explore the impactful theme of fatherless homes and its far-reaching effects. With their rich conversation, Anyoh and Harry dissect gender roles, the evolving roles of fathers and mothers in households, the importance of men's involvement in their children's lives, and the interplay between traditional and modern approaches to marriage.   Join us as we navigate this thought-provoking discourse, touching on themes of emotional well-being, nurturing healthy family dynamics, and fostering community bonds. In a world where the concept of family is ever-evolving, this episode offers a profound exploration of the fatherless epidemic, and we emerge with a deeper understanding of the complexities it brings to our lives.   Tune in for a conversation that's sure to inspire, challenge perspectives, and encourage us all to play an active role in shaping the future of our families and communities.     Things You Will Learn in This Episode:  [00:00 – 05:30] Introduction and Guest Introduction Introduction to Harry, his family, values, and parenting approach. [05:30 – 20:15] Gender Roles and Parenting  Engaging conversation about gender roles in modern households.  Discussion on evolving roles of fathers and mothers in parenting.  Exploration of active parenting, staying-at-home dads and moms, and disagreements.  Insightful talk on challenges and impact of absentee fathers. [20:15 – 40:40] The Fatherless Epidemic  Delving deep into the effects of the fatherless epidemic on young men and the community.  Advice and guidance for young men to embrace emotions and become active parents and husbands.  Harry's perspective on repercussions of absent fathers and importance of strong role models. [40:40 – 01:30:00] Empowerment, Unity, and Final Thoughts  Empowering one another and advocating for healthier family dynamics.  Encouraging young men to step up, take charge, and break the cycle of absentee fatherhood.  Addressing the importance of open dialogue, emotional well-being, and active involvement in parenting.  Insights from Harry on creating a legacy and fostering resilient, capable young men.  Final words from Anyoh and Harry, emphasizing unity, empowerment, and building a stronger community.   This Episode is brought to you by Living Financially Free: In our community, financial stability is often overlooked as a priority. Hence, it becomes crucial to understand how our money works; its growth, and the methods to build generational wealth and establish a lasting legacy. If you envision a financially free life for you and your family, visit www.livingfinanciallyfree.info to speak with an agent who can guide you further.   Quotes   “"A father's legacy isn't just what he leaves behind; it's the strength he instills in the generations to come and I try everyday to instill discipline, honesty, and other important values into my children.” – Harry Fon “Men of African descent must redefine masculinity – showing emotions doesn't weaken a man; it strengthens the family, your relationships, and makes you human." – Anyoh Fombad “We as men must know that It's not about being a dad; it's about being present. Your presence is what shapes the future, creating memories with your family, actively being there and involved." – Harry Fon   LEAVE A REVIEW and tell us what you think about the episode so we can continue putting out the best content just for you! Connect with Living African Podcast: You can connect with us on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, or Twitter, or send us an email at [email protected]. Check out our website www.livingafricanpodcast.com for more resources and to learn more. Connect with host, Anyoh: You can connect with Anyoh on Facebook (@anyohf), Instagram (@anyohfombad), and Twitter (@anyohfombad). Thank you.