How to Have an Aligned Marriage with Mike Ayala

How often do you intentionally get curious and dream with your spouse? My husband Mike is back on the podcast and we’re talking all about how to have an aligned marriage. Staying curious about your spouse is something that will bring the two of you closer. If you’re listening to this podcast, I know you’re someone who is constantly wanting to grow and go after the life you want for yourself and the people closest to you. In this episode, we’re sharing how to grow individually, and come together in an aligned marriage that is a FUN and safe space for both of you. I’m a believer that one of the most important things you can do for your spouse is help them dive into the things that light them up and work towards your dreams together. Grab a pen, or record a quick voice note after the podcast, because we have some great questions you and your spouse can ask each other to connect on a deeper level, dream together, and come together in alignment!   02:15 Are you still curious about your spouse? 05:00 Do you separate your work and your relationship? 09:30 Why you should show interest in what your spouse is interested in.  14:00 How we prioritize dreaming together. 17:40 Questions you can ask your spouse to learn more about them. 22:15 How can I grow as an individual and bring the best version of myself to my marriage? 29:00 How to turn a fight into the opportunity to learn more about what your spouse needs. 32:20 Ways to support your spouse and create a safe space for each other to communicate.   In This Episode, We Talk About: Some of our favorite questions we ask each other on date night. The importance of dreaming with your spouse, and showing interest in the things that light them up! Great advice we’ve learned about communicating with your spouse as you build businesses together! Resources + Links:   Check out this book mentioned in the episode: His Needs, Her Needs by Willard F. Jr. Harley   Text COUPLES to 480-605-4814 to get on the list for Mike and Kara’s couples event!   What's YOUR Financial Archetype? TAKE THE QUIZ   ………………………………….   Connect with Kara on Instagram | @kara_ayala   Check out how you can work with Kara | karaayala.com   Join Kara’s FREE Facebook group: https://kara-ayala.mykajabi.com/offers/aubrLymR/checkout