45. Courtroom Demeanor, with Shareema Abel

Without a doubt, knowing your client’s case up one side and down the other and understanding and applying the law are critical to your chances of prevailing at trial. But if your demeanor and presentation style lack polish, you might be getting in your own way. Special Counsel to the New York City MTA Inspector General and NITA Program Director Shareema Abel joins May the Record Reflect to talk about courtroom composure, interpersonal conduct, oral advocacy, self-expression, and so much more.Topics3:05 What is courtroom demeanor?6:12 Demeanor in challenging situations8:57 When you know the judge or opposing counsel12:03 Vocal expression and body language16:49 Personal style22:55 Conduct outside the courtroom26:12 Online proceedings28:39 Picking yourself up on an off day32:44 Cross-generational learning at the office37:45 Neurodivergence40:16 Feedback on your courtroom demeanor44:58 Signoff questionsQuote“Silence is one of the things that, over the years, I really had to get comfortable with in a courtroom because I remember wanting to fill every second of space and I thought silence was deadly. But as you grow in your career, you realize that you can use silence as a tool, and so oftentimes, especially when you forget a point, it’s ok to have a pregnant pause or use silence, and then return to a podium, to your notes, to remember what you’re saying. Or using silence to make a point after you ask a rhetorical question and using silence when you’re going from topic to topic, because my theory is you should never be talking and moving at the same time.” Shareema AbelResources Shareema Abel (LinkedIn) NITA Women in Trial (program) Deposition Skills: NYC (program) Building Trial Skills: NYC (program) NITA Women in Trial playlist (Spotify)