116. Are You Sure Your Partner Feels Safe With You?

“Getting into a relationship is one of the most courageous acts that men and women can have. Each of us are bringing our own pain and suffering into a relationship, and now trying to work it out between two couples. Not only that, everybody's walking into a new relationship with a 100% breakup rate prior to getting into that relationship. So how do we be in a relationship, holding what we're holding, and create safety and trust for one another in ways that matter, that can help us calm our nervous system? And nobody trains us how to do it.” - Tait Today on Men, This Way: 4:00 - Understanding how women don’t feel safe in the world 14:10 - Ways in which men unintentionally damage trust in relationships 22:00 - The gifts that women bring to a relationship 26:00 - The result of men’s lack of presence 29:50 - Breaking down the idea of “f*ck your feelings” 33:50 - How men don’t feel safe in relationships 40:00 - Identifying criticism delivered unskillfully 43:20 - The four horsemen of the relationship apocalypse 48:10 - Having freedom in relationship 53:15 - 3 steps to connect with your partner Connect with Bryan & Tait: Roadmap to Thriving in Relationship: training.elevaterelationship.com Website: bryanreeves.com Instagram: @bryanreevesinsight / @taitarend08 Email: [email protected] / [email protected] This show is produced by Soulfire Productions