170 - Relationship Networks

So I go to see a psychotherapist about once a month and I saw him yesterday. In my twenties I was shut in and socially awkward and I spent most of my time working and making money and spent very little time socializing. Yesterday I was talking to my therapist about the idea of male harems and how women have more then one man to fulfill a specific function in their lives. To explain it better I'm putting a link to a video I did a while back call Women & Their Male Harems. And I'm including the link in the description below to my video as well as another one from Bernard Chapin on the same subject. I've heard women promote this idea of having a harem or gaggle of men to fulfill their needs. One guy to give them sex, another one provide money, yet another one to act as an emotional tampon and the fourth to have pseudo intellectual or artsy conversation with. And of course the gay man to come over and prepare her exquisite meals and clean her abode. So I was telling this to my therapist and I thought about what a modern day female harem would look like for a man. Would men even need four or five women around to fulfill their daily needs? What would a modern day female harem look like? The only reason a guy would have women around would be for sex, possibly cuddling or emotional intimacy and maybe co-parenting. We can have our social needs met by our male friends. We can have the deep intellectual conversations with our friends as well. We can also cook our own food and make and keep our own money. Co-parenting is also an iffy proposition because there have been cases where the courts sided with the mothers and forced the fathers to pay child support because the mothers took the men to court. So co-parenting isn't really a viable option for men. With regards to both modern day male and female harems you have to look at them as relationship networks. Women use social networking so their relationships with men are being compartmentalized. My therapist told me that women come into his office and say they meet different guys and many of them seem to pick and choose different qualities they like from different men. But there don't seem to be men out there for them that have everything they are looking for. So instead of settling for one guy that hast half or more of the qualities they are looking for they instead look for a bunch of guys that satisfy each of their needs fully. Men are only now starting to abandon relationships. I believe that many younger women abandoned relationships years ago in favor of having many guys in their relationship network to satisfy each role. A relationship network of women for one guy wouldn't work very well. Besides sex and cuddling What else could a woman provide that we couldn't get elsewhere? And even those services can be bought.Women & Their Male Harems - MGTOWhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4I1_c...Women Need a Male Harem!https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PUJ0V...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy