97- Controlling Your Emotions

So anyways, here's the question: "Hello Sandman, I am glad that I found your channel and absorbing the MGTOW perspective. Thank you for what you are doing and keep up the good work. In my dating past, I realized that I get attached to a women too quickly which would set the tone of being a SIMP and doing male tricks. A male trick in this case, is a man who spends money in order to gain acceptance by a female. A SIMP is a man that puts himself in a subservient/submissive position under women in hopes of winning them over, while the female brings little to nothing to the table. I have found myself "tricking" and "simping" a bit in the past and luckily it's never put me in the bad and worse case scenario. I have matured and do this type of behavior anymore thank goodness... but I still have the nagging problem that when I get attached to a girl, I begin to envision that "nothing will go wrong" and "happily ever after" relationship. You know, the Disney bullshit. I have realized that when you allow your emotions to control you early in a relationship, it begins to cloud your judgment later on... where there would be a fight between logic and feelings when something suspicious comes up. Also, you are setting up yourself to be taken advantaged off. Recently, I was dealing with a woman that was secretive and "too busy" for me after some time dealing with each other. Although I had no evidence at the time, from intuition I suspected that there was another guy, and eventually I dropped her. It turned out that there was another guy, and luckily I did the right thing. The problem is that I took too long in doing so because feelings were in the way. Because I took too long, i spent too much time, effort and energy on the negative where I could have saved that and use it for something more positive and productive. My question is, how can a man control his emotions?The Purple Pill Of Purgatoryhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p71B1...Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/mgtow/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy