EP05: Mother of Two Only Children, 22 years apart with Sasha Gray

Sasha Gray of Scattered Sashais a writer of words, spewer of sarcasm, and a margarita loving, sassy Southern belle raising her 11 year old granddaughter. Sasha believes life is tough for a lot of us, and we’re all just doing the best we can. But she also believes that kindness, laughing, and doing a little dance every now and then is sometimes the answer to everyday life. Sometimes we just need a margarita and some glitter to give us that extra push. Sasha brings her unique brand of motivational humor to her Facebook home - Scattered Sasha- where her daily lives and weekly show make us laugh, and remind us that we are perfectly imperfect and that's just fine. Sasha's mottos are: Make a difference. Build people up. Create Laughter. Spread a little love..... And with a journey fraught with caffeine and chaos, and slapped together by pixie dust and tequila, Sasha knows a thing or two about differences, building people up, creating laughter and spreading a little love. Listen as Sasha shares how: She uses her wisdom as an “older” mom to make more intentional choices. She deals with second guessing her decisions and regret. Her granddaughter became her daughter. Social Media has changed her mothering journey. Her life experience (age?) allows her to set better boundaries and priorities. To deal with self-criticism (Take that picture!) Laughter has helped her cope. To raise a child in an atypical family. She chooses happiness.   MORE FROM SASHA: Follow Sasha on Facebook. Follow Sasha on Instagram. Follow Sasha on YouTube. Follow Sasha on Pinterest. Sasha’s Mini Group Sessions ~ 30 minute classes that give solutions and guidance that you can take action on immediately. Sasha’s  Glitter & Grace Club ~ a membership site that offers daily motivation and inspiration, along with a monthly zoom call and a birthday gift in the mail.    Sasha’s  Mindset Switch Coaching Quotables: “My journey is fraught with caffeine and chaos, slapped together by pixie dust and tequila” - Sasha Gray “I have no regrets, just fabulous experiences” - Sasha Gray “If it causes drama or trauma, just say no” - Sasha Gray “You have 1000 little boxes in your soul that are filled with all the good things people tell you.  If you let 1 box fill with ugly, then it festers and grows, then there is no room for the good boxes of kindness and joy.” - Sasha Gray “Fill your head and soul with positive” - Sasha Gray “Can’t change how people act, but how we react” - Sasha Gray “What is in my realm of possibility?” - Sasha Gray “PMOS Training: How to make your child a Productive Member Of Society” - Sasha Gray   MORE FROM MOM DECONSTRUCTED: Support this podcast on Patreon. Leave a review on ITunes here. Sign up for our newsletter here. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Facebook. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Instagram. Follow Mom Deconstructed on Twitter.   MORE FROM KATE: Kate Turza, Postpartum Doula Follow Kate on Facebook Join Kate’s Facebook Group, Reality Tykes   MORE FROM LIZ: Mom...In The Works Follow Liz on Facebook Follow Liz on Instagram   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices