Ep 78- Smith Smacks & Narcissistic Energy

Aries New Moon Energy week- New intentions regarding Self Light VS Shadow side of Aries energy Aries New Moon energy week, attracting new energies light & dark Breakdown of Narcissistic Personality Disorder Covert Narcissism and the mask reveal Empaths attracting Narcissists; is it a Karmic Bond instead? Narcissists are “Light Snuffers”; always trying to snuff out your light Narcissists are “Energy Vampires; taking your energy & not reciprocating “Moving the Goal Post” tactic; you can NEVER get it right or satisfy them Recognizing the Narcissistic energy You’re the Problem AND the Solution. It starts & ends with you. There’s nothing you can do or say to please a Narcissist. Don’t even try. Rant on Will Smith smacking Chris Rock in defense of his Wife, Jada. Stop letting people talk shit to your face! Will had that Aries energy! The Narcissist Discarding Phase- it comes outta nowhere with no apology. Blaming any and everything to make you feel wrong. Choosing the Narcissistic Abuse after recognizing the signs Are YOU enabling and operating from Ego & Pride by CHOOSING the abuse? The Love Bombing Phase- whirlwind romancing before the reveal Inviting you into their world JUST to kick you out. Hypersensitivity to everything going wrong at YOUR fault. PTSD from Narcissistic Abuse; heal that before your next relationship. When the Abused become the Abuser The Narcissist tend to be very lonely because they really aren’t likeable. Narcissist delight in planting seeds of doubt in your head. Narcissist come into your life to teach you self-worth/ self- value. How long you gonna let someone play you/ play with you? They intentionally try to make your dreams/ ideas small. No interest in you. How they treat you is EVERYTHING to do with THEM, not YOU. Through your many rejections, they will show you you can’t get it right. Do not take Dark Energy lightly. Separate yourself ASAP. Protect your energy. They told you you were too much and you believed them. Why? Are you forcing the connection from your own pride & ego? You have NOTHING to PROVE to the Narcissist. They really don’t care. Stop thinking that Toxic Love is cute; it’s not, it’s Potentially Life Threatening/ DEADLY. Beware of petty, taunting energy (Aries childish aggressive behavior) False sense of Intimacy in order to withdraw YOUR secrets/ pain points Did you give your Narcissist your Cheat Codes to break you down? “No one is my friend. No one is my enemy. Everyone is my teacher.” -Unknown Asserting yourself to the Narcissist to take your power back Are you choosing violence or choosing peace? Everyone not gonna like you! Your light is gonna piss some people off! Don’t let your need to be loved/ liked keep you entangled with a Narcissist. Narcissists actually hate themselves, which is why they hate/ hate on others. They will never acknowledge how they benefitted from you. Try not to pity the Narcissist when you know you need to leave. Their problem. “I’m ONLY going where the love is.” -CheChe Only putting yourself in undeniable good energy spaces. Intentionally. Listen to your body and honor your intuition/ inner voice Stop explaining yourself to Narcissists. They aren’t listening to you. For real. Stop allowing people to KEEP TAKING FROM YOU. Value yourself more Release them in Forgiveness and choose yourself. It’s about YOU now. Closing Remarks @60 mins IG: @chechebabe @myvirgofriendpodcast Feature me as a guest on your podcast! Let’s collaborate! If you want to submit your questions to me for advice or feedback, you’re welcome to email me at [email protected] or [email protected]