#026 Creating Agency (and getting your kids to tidy their room) with Julie Skolnick

We’re excited to be talking to Julie Skolnick today about 2E, giftedness, what is creating agency for your children, how and why you should! Julie gives us heaps of tips that will help with validation, expectations, focusing on strengths, discussing why we do things, executive function and more! Hit play and let’s get started! Memorable Quote “How many people out there think that they're the frontal lobe for their kids? You're the one who sets up all the stuff. The checklist, the double checks, the making sure the do this, do that. That's not agency. That's taking agency actually away. The opposite of that is agency where the child actually is doing the stuff for themselves, that they're making the decisions for themselves. And sometimes that's super scary for parents of gifted and 2E kids... “ – Julie Skolnick Resources com Let’s Talk 2e! virtual conferences WithUnderstandingComesCalm.com Facebook: WithUnderstandingComesCalm Let’s Talk 2e – Parents Let’s Talk 2e – Teachers’ Lounge Instagram: @LetsTalk2e Twitter: @JulieSkolnick LinkedIn: Julie Rosenbaum Skolnick YouTube: Let’s Talk 2e BIO Julie Skolnick, M.A., J.D., Founder of With Understanding Comes Calm, LLC, passionately guides parents of gifted and distractible children, mentors 2e adults, trains educators and advises professionals on how to bring out the best and raise self-confidence in their 2e students and clients. Julie serves as Secretary to the Maryland Superintendent’s Gifted and Talented Advisory Council, is an advisor for the Masters of Education Program for the Bridges Graduate School of Cognitive Diversity, is the Maryland liaison for Supporting the Emotional Needs of the Gifted (SENG), is a Committee member for the National Association for Gifted Children (NAGC) and serves as an advisor to “The G Word” feature documentary currently in production. A frequent speaker and prolific writer, Julie is also the mother of three twice exceptional children who keep her on her toes and uproariously laughing. Subscribe & Review If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about your biggest takeaway in the comments. For more episodes, you can subscribe and to help others find our podcast please leave a review. You can find show notes and more resources at www.ourgiftedkids.com See you in the same place next week. Connect Connect with me on LinkedIn Instagram & Facebook!