Exile: what's the point of Harry and Meghan living in Montecito?

Former Vanity Fair editor-in-chief Graydon Carter say there's nothing to do in Montecito.   “It’s a 40-minute drive from L.A. There can’t be many kids there, because young families can’t afford it.” And did Charles ignore Lili's birthday?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.