Why Your WORDS Matter | POF39

Words matter and we often aren’t aware that we’re labeling our child’s behavior in a negative way.  We justify it by seeing it as, “calling it like it is” or “just pointing it out” to our child.  If your child is shy…well, they’re shy….right?  As parents we have to remember the huge impact our words have on our children.  When they display “undesirable” behavior that we then assign a negative label that label can become part of their self-identity and their inner voice.    What I’m teaching you to do through this episode is to “Reframe” the way your see your child and their behavior.  Why?  Because when we see our child differently…we see a DIFFERENT child.  Can you imagine what life would be like without that negative voice or your hurtful self-talk?  That would be freeing!  This is the gift you can give your kids RIGHT NOW! Scroll to the bottom for your FREE Guide to Reframing Behavior!   About Robbin McManne  Robbin is a Certified Parent Coach, author and speaker.  She works with parents from all over the world to help them build more connection and find more joy and cooperation in their parenting. Robbin is a former ‘Angry Mom’ and for over 12 years, Robbin juggled a full-time corporate career while being a mom and wife, prior to becoming a Parenting Coach.  In her corporate career, Robbin has a background in marketing and public relations, training, and event planning. She understands firsthand how many moms struggle to balance work and family. It’s because of her struggles as a parent that she found the world of peaceful parenting and has dedicated her life to teaching parents how to build a strong family, so their kids thrive.  Robbin’s work focuses on building and strengthening the parent-child relationship so that children grow up with resilience, confidence and strong emotional intelligence.  She works with parents to help them understand their own emotions and frustrations in parenting, so they can help build their children’s sense of self without losing themselves in the process! In October of 2018 Robbin released her first book, “The Yelling Cure – How stress less and get your kids to cooperate without threats & punishments.” Her book is being read by parents all over the world 1000,000 copies sold to date. www.yellingcurebook.com Robbin divides her time working with her clients, speaking at events and spending time with her two boys and husband.  You can usually find her at a hockey rink or sports field cheering on her boys.  Most importantly, Robbin has changed the way she parents and connects with her sons and is dedicated to helping parents find the same joy, connection and cooperation in their families. www.yellingcurebook.com [email protected] www.parentingforconnection.com www.facebook.com/parenting4connection www.instagram.com/robbinmcmanne_parentcoach   **If you are looking for more support with the Coronavirus for your family, Please click below for a proven parenting tool and a masterclass on surviving lockdowns and quarantine: https://go.robbinmcmanne.com/the-parent-pass-a37159229   From the Podcast: Behavior is often temporary, but labels can be wired into your child’s subconscious for a lifetime.                 We reframe behavior for our child’s benefit AND for the benefit of the parent as well because the way we see our child influences our thoughts perspectives and attitudes about our child. We can reframe our...