283: What Are You Here to Do? How to Find a Path That Fits with Adrian Klaphaak

Instead of asking, “What should I do?” Ask yourself, “Who am I?” Today you’ll hear from someone who has been deeply influential in my life and career: my very first coach and longtime friendtor, Adrian Klaphaak, founder of A Path That Fits. More about Adrian: Adrian Klaphaak is a coach, purpose guide, entrepreneur, therapist, and founder of A Path That Fits Career and Life Coaching. His coaching approach is holistic—a constant balance between getting results and a quest for meaning and fulfillment. He describes himself as “a deep seeker with a constant itch to make things happen.” 🌟3 Key Takeaways: Getting discouraged is a part of figuring out what you should be doing with your life. The ‘dip’ is normal, and the way out is to explore your gifts and interests. You can be laid off from a job, but you can’t be laid off from your purpose. Knowing your purpose is the ultimate protection. Name the parts of you that feel the most strongly about the decisions you are making, it will make it easier to explore how you are really feeling.   ✅Next Action: Be yourself. There are so many expectations for us to be a certain way, but we all have our own genius and unique way. The path to a fulfilling life is being authentic, using your gifts, and doing what you love to do. 📘Books Mentioned: Free Time: Lose The Busywork, Love Your Business  Pivot: The Only Move That Matters Is Your Next One When the Body Says No: Understanding the Stress-Disease Connection 🔗Resources Mentioned:  Adrian on the web, Yelp, Facebook, LinkedIn Course: Career Pathfinder Articles: New York Times: The World’s a Mess. So They’ve Stopped Saving For Tomorrow, How to Discover Your Purpose Video: Finding Your Calling by a Path the Fits 🎧Related Podcast Episodes:  177: Pivot Method as 4-Stage Coaching Framework [Workshop Replay] 47: Live Fiercely, Study Deeply . . . While Earning a Living — with Jonathan Fields 67: What Does Your Soul Know? Flow and Transparency with Penney Peirce 16: Stacy Sims on Somatics: Why How You Sit Might Cause Stress 72: BREATHE. From Burned-Out Bodybuilder to Yin Strength Trainer with Anders Varner 89: Turning Pain Into Purpose: Blind Adventurer Erik Weihenmayer on Kayaking the Grand Canyon, Climbing Everest and Building No Barriers   ❤️ Enjoying the show? I'd be grateful for a rating and/or review! Even better? Share this episode with a friend :) 💌 Get my curated weekly(ish) PivotList newsletter 💬 I’d love to hear what’s on your mind! Take the Pivot listener survey 🗣 Submit a question or comment for future episodes 🎧 Make sure you’re subscribed wherever you listen to ‘casts 📝 Check out full show notes from this episode with links to resources mentioned at http://pivotmethod.com/283 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices