How Can I Ever Dare to Trust Him Again?

When there has been Betrayal Trauma, it can seem impossible to ever dare to fully trust again. A PBSE listener describes this struggle as "foreboding joy"—things can be going OK in the relationship, even happy, but there's always this "shadow" in the background threatening to "blindside" her with another betrayal. Here's how she describes it—I came into the relationship with many self-esteem and insecurity issues which, of course, have only been deepened by his betrayal. The thing I str...