Living a Life True to Yourself with Jaxon Feeley
Talks With Toni - A podcast by Toni Gargan - Wednesdays
Toni interviews Jaxon Feeley, a former prison officer who made the decision to transition from female to male while working in a prison environment. Jaxon shares his personal journey of self-discovery and the impact it had on himself, his family, colleagues, and prisoners. He discusses the challenges he faced in understanding and accepting his true identity, as well as the struggles with mental health and the constant search for fulfilment. Jaxon's mission is to inspire others to live a life true to themselves, regardless of gender or any other societal expectations. The conversation also touches on the importance of education, acceptance, and creating a safe space for individuals to express their true selves. KEY TAKEAWAYS Jaxon Feeley's journey of self-discovery and transition from female to male within the prison service has inspired him to help others live a life true to themselves. Jaxon's realization of his gender identity began at a young age, but he didn't have the vocabulary or understanding to express it until later in life. Jaxon's experience as a tomboy and feeling uncomfortable in traditional gender roles contributed to his journey of self-discovery. Jaxon emphasises the importance of allowing children to express themselves and not forcing them into gender stereotypes, as it can lead to confusion and discomfort. Jaxon's mission is to educate and inspire others to embrace their true selves, regardless of gender identity, and to create a more accepting and understanding society. BEST MOMENTS "I think podcasts are like therapy, honestly, I love it." "For a long time, I just thought I had, I struggled with my mental health." "I convinced my mum and dad that I wanted to move school at 14 because I was obsessed with being the real me." "Our lives are constantly, whether it's big or small, they're constantly in transition trying to adapt to change." "If someone feels loved and safe and accepted, they will thrive." HOST BIO Toni's journey defies the norm. Raised with a strong work ethic and a traditional career path in mind, she initially pursued a corporate job in HR after earning her degree. However, in 2015, everything changed when she attended a property training seminar. Little did she know that this event would ignite a profound passion for property investment. With her husband Chris, Toni raised millions in joint venture finance, creating a multi-million-pound property portfolio. But her story doesn't stop there. By the age of 33, she left her HR job behind to empower others in building their successful property businesses. Toni's passion for public speaking led her to become a world record holder. Beyond the accolades, she sees it as a calling to educate and inspire. Toni hosts training events and uses her "Talks with Toni" podcast to share insights, interview captivating guests, and motivate her audience.