Episode 213: If you punish the truth, you’re asking to be lied to

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The title says it all: if you punish the truth, you’re asking to be lied to. And why is that? Because expecting other people to prioritize honesty irrespective of the social, financial, or relational consequences of doing so is asking too much of people. If the truth is met with hostility, indignation, or ostracization, most people will never make the mistake of being honest with you again. And this puts you at a significant disadvantage by infusing your relationships with unreality. #truth #lies #relationships