Episode 471: The lens of attraction (why you can't do anything right)

This might be my most important concept for men to understand: the lens of attraction. More than anything else, it helps to explain why success with women isn’t about doing the “right” things. The exact same woman can perceive the exact same behavior in two wildly disparate ways as a consequence of her attraction levels. Keep her attraction high and you will do no wrong; let it drop and you won’t be able to do anything right.