Being Gay, Benders and Belonging

In this episode, host Nikki Rhodes speaks to Tony Thorn about his journey of growing up ‘loving illegally’ as a gay man in New Zealand. We speak of the wounding within queer consciousness and his own inner struggle with sex addiction and unhealthy power dynamics. He speaks of his own journey from sexual obsession to sexual repulsion and back again, and why too closely associating worthiness with intimacy became a dangerous trap of self sabotage. A deeply inspiring episode of finding one’s path out of victimhood and into one of confronting, yet powerful sexual healing. Website  Instagram Facebook