You're Not Healed, You're Aware Feat. Tu'Shouney Phillips

Happy Friday nieces and nephews! Your favorite aunties Bridget Kelly and Mandii B are joined by author of “A Walk Into The Dark & Cold” Tu’shouney for some grown, honest, and slightly toxic conversations. The three cover topics like, the limitations of love language theory and the importance of factoring in trauma, the 5 types of relationships within a marriage, learning how to allow space while still being present, Being intentionally patient, and the importance of asking/answering the hard questions while dating AKA Dating Backwards!. Timestamps:(5:00) Learning how to compromise within a relationship: 1 partner wanting to celebrate a holiday that the other does not believe in {20:00) The misuse/overuse of the love language theory:Does not consider/factor in experiences with trauma Can be weaponized as a tallying metricWhole love vs. Love vs. attachments(30:00) Being HEALED isn’t REAL, you’re simply aware. Healing is an ongoing journey.(38:00) Theory: MOST Men don’t like women and women don’t like men(40:00) Why do men repel from “wholeness” (50:00) Being Honest about Dishonesty doesn’t make betrayal okay: KEVIN GATES CLIP (1:00:00) 5 types of relationships within a marriage for the full relationship to thrive: The one with yourselfFriendship with each otherRomantic relationship with each otherSexual relationships with each otherMartial relationship  (1:10:00) Dating backwards: within 1 conversation you can learn what it usually take 6 months to learn:List a few things you know that you need to work on List a few things that people have told you you need to work on (1:15:00) Anything that separates you from love, is self harm: extreme detachment, isolation, etc. (1:16:00) Freshly Squeezed:Same Mistake- Destin Conrad Ft. Alex Isley Easy- SamohtNo Evil - SiR ---------------------------CONNECT WITH US:📱INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/seethethingispod/reels/  📱TIK TOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@seethethingispod?lang=en  🗝PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/seethethingispod 🎙ADVERTISE WITH US ON GUMBALL : https://gumball.fm/shows/see-the-thing-is/61781b15b8db6d491d3f4119---------------------------Sponsors of the show: Naked Wines: Head to NakedWines.com/STTI , click ‘Enter Voucher’ in the top right corner and enter STTI for both the code AND password to get 6 bottles of wine for JUST $39.99 with shipping included - that’s $100 off and less than $7 per bottle! Prose: Take your FREE in-depth hair consultation and...