25. From Blame to Brilliance

Welcome to "Stop Dating Losers," where we reflect on our lives filled with proud accomplishments, beautiful children, and successful careers. Yet, when we delve into our romantic past, we're often met with regret. We've all been there—the inner voice echoing, "Why did I marry that guy?" or "What was I thinking?" We're left feeling guilty and ashamed, picking up the pieces of damaged relationships. It's easy to blame ourselves for choosing partners who weren't right for us. But self-blame only scratches the surface. True accountability means delving into why we made those decisions. Relationships influence every aspect of our lives, yet many of us treat them lightly, falling in and out of love without much thought. I know this firsthand—I stumbled through countless relationships with men who weren't good for me. Taking responsibility felt empowering, but it wasn't enough. I needed to hold myself accountable, to ask why I kept making the same mistakes. Transformation isn't easy. It requires introspection, a willingness to feel, to ponder, to grow. That's why I'm launching a membership—a community where you can ask questions, get coached by me, and grow alongside others on the same journey. Join me on "Stop Dating Losers" as we navigate the complexities of love, learn from our mistakes, and strive for growth. Together, we'll transform our relationships and our lives. Lots of love to you all—bye for now! #MichaelSandler #untetheredsoul