30. Once a Cheater Always a Cheater?

In today's episode, we're diving deep into a topic that's as complex as it is common: infidelity. Drawing from my personal experiences, we're going to explore cheating from both perspectives—being cheated on and being the cheater. My journey with infidelity started early, back when I was 19 and engaged to a man who was unfaithful throughout our relationship. But what shaped my understanding of infidelity more profoundly was my own history as a cheater. For many years, I struggled with fidelity, often finding myself in relationships where I stepped out. It wasn't until I retired from escorting and began to value real relationships that I truly understood the impact of my actions. In this episode, I challenge the saying, "once a cheater, always a cheater." I believe change is possible if you're willing to put in the work. We'll discuss why people cheat, how to address these issues in a relationship, and the importance of self-reflection and commitment. I'll also share insights from my book, "How to Keep Your Man Out of My Bed," which offers strategies for preventing infidelity in an empowered way. We'll delve into a pivotal moment in my life—a time when I almost fell into old patterns but chose a different path. I'll talk about how my current marriage to Bobby has thrived because of the commitment we've both made to honesty and communication. We'll explore how even fleeting thoughts of infidelity can be transformed into opportunities for deeper connection and understanding. Through my story, I hope to provide a space for healing and understanding for those of you who may have faced similar challenges. Whether you've been unfaithful or been betrayed, you're not alone. Sharing our unsavory behaviors can help others heal and realize they're not alone in their struggles. I'll wrap up by discussing the crucial role sex plays in maintaining a healthy, long-term relationship. If you're struggling with a lack of desire or connection, my free course "How to Get Your Sexy Back" might be just what you need. It's designed to help you reignite that spark, whether you're married, dating, or single. Thank you for joining me today. Remember, you can always change, and you deserve to be happy and fulfilled in your relationships. Visit my website, sexloveandsoul.com, to access the free course and start your journey towards a more vibrant love life. Until next time, I love you, and thank you so much for being here. #infidelity #cheating