38. Men, Please Stop Apologizing For Being Men

In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I, Mary Knight, get into why some "nice guys" struggle with owning their sexuality. Many men arrive on a date with good intentions but often hold back, treating the woman like a fragile victim of male sexuality. This mindset keeps them from truly connecting, both emotionally and physically. I’m not saying men's actions don't sometimes harm women, but most women aren’t looking for protection from your desire—they want to feel your masculine presence. In this video, I explore why men need to acknowledge their sexual energy and lead with it confidently—without feeling guilt or shame. When men believe they're somehow dangerous or predatory just for wanting intimacy, they lose the chance to form genuine, fulfilling connections. This creates a disconnect and push women away. I also talk about the war on masculinity and femininity and how it’s shaping modern dating dynamics. It’s time to unlearn some harmful societal teachings and embrace healthy masculinity in a way that honors both men and women. If you're ready to shift your perspective, embrace your sexual confidence, and improve your dating life, watch now! Have questions or thoughts? Drop them in the comments or email me at [email protected] Don’t forget to subscribe for more discussions on love, intimacy, and self-discovery! Ready to Turn Nice into Your Sexy SuperPower - buy my booklet at: www.sexloveansoul.com Ready to get to the next level in life, dating, marriage: Book a coaching session with me: https://calendly.com/mary-sexloveandsoul/coaching