42. Dating Myths: How You're Being Brainwashed

Are you tired of being told you need to drop a fortune on a first date just to prove you’re “serious”? In this episode of Sex, Love, and Soul, I—Mary Knight—unpack the new dating pressures created by social media “experts” and debunk the myth that an expensive steakhouse is the only way to impress a woman. We’ll explore why you don’t have to break the bank to show genuine interest, how true confidence and security aren’t measured by designer dinners, and why a coffee date can sometimes be the most honest way to meet someone. I’ll also cover the damaging messages men receive, from believing you must be six feet tall with six figures to thinking that simply having real desires makes you “dangerous.” These conflicting narratives lead many men to feel stuck, discouraged, or even tempted to ditch traditional dating entirely. The truth? Healthy, fulfilling relationships start with mutual respect, clarity, and embracing your authentic self—no overpriced tab required. If you’re a “nice guy” fed up with the dating merry-go-round, grab my book, How to Turn Nice into Sexy, and discover how to stay true to who you are while confidently navigating modern dating. You’ll find it at www.sexloveandsoul.com. And if you’re ready for one-on-one support, visit www.sexloveandsoulcoaching.com to schedule a personalized coaching session. Let’s cut through the noise and get back to what really matters: real human connection.