47. Nice Doesn't Get You Laid

Nice doesn’t get you laid. Leadership does.In this episode of Sex, Love & Soul, I’m breaking down the real reason “nice guys” get stuck in friend zones, sexless marriages, and fantasy-fueled frustration. You’ve been told to be polite, patient, respectful. But if you’re shape-shifting to earn approval, you’re not attracting anyone—you’re disappearing.I’m Mary Knight, and I’ll show you exactly why your passivity is killing attraction—and how to reclaim the grounded, sexy masculine energy women actually respond to. This isn’t about being a jerk. It’s about being real. If you’re tired of playing small, this video will shake something loose.✅ Why respecting boundaries can backfire✅ How overthinking destroys desire✅ What “seduction” really means (and how to embody it)✅ Why so many men secretly turn to escorts✅ How to lead in dating and marriage—without apologyStop overthinking. Start showing up.Grab my free guide: How to Turn Nice into Your Sexy Superpower→ sexloveandsoul.com