71. Ariel Niu: Mastering Conversations + The Dynamics of Sharp vs. Soft

Have you ever wondered why some conversations feel nice and easy while others feel awkward or difficult? Maybe you tend to people please and speak softly in social situations OR have been told that you're too intense. If you struggle to socialize or feel nervous when talking to others, this is an episode you'll want to listen to!Join us as we dive deep into the art of communication, exploring practical tips and personal stories that will help you express yourself with confidence, clarity, and authenticity. To learn more about the dynamics between sharp and soft speech AND how to balance our energy to prime us for the most powerful and successful conversations...we invited the beloved Ariel Niu into the studio!Watch this episode on YouTube:https://youtu.be/-KoKeuqL7uYAriel Niu is a creator, speaker, and coach on self and social dynamics. She shares views and guidance on human interactions through understanding our emotions, expressions, energy, and the interconnectedness between everything and everyone. People absolutely love the way she simply and effectively demonstrates how fear shows up in our conversational habits and millions have learned through her content how to show up with more confidence in their workplaces, social circles, and romantic relationships.In this episode, we discuss the impact of emotional experiences on self-perception and the importance of accepting and honing one's natural expressions. By listening, you'll have a deeper insight into the nuances of social dynamics, how superiority & inferiority show up, and how to balance your expressions with authenticity, nonchalance, detachment.Timestamps:00:00 Ariel's Journey of Self-Discovery and Spirituality03:50 Navigating the Balance Between Sharpness and Softness08:22 Accepting and Honing Natural Expressions in Communication15:21 Understanding the Nuances of Different Archetypes in Communication31:40 Alert Nonchalance: Balancing Conscious Awareness and Neutrality49:13 Owning Your Wants: Differentiating People-Pleasing from Genuine Kindness57:28 Detachment and Interdependency: Navigating Healthy Relationships59:31 Detachment and Genuine Relationships01:21:50 Personal Growth and AcceptanceWatch this episode on YouTube:https://youtu.be/-KoKeuqL7uYJoin our FREE community: (We host free calls every month!)https://tinyurl.com/SpiralinghighercommunityTry the SUPERHUMAN app free for 6 weeks with code 'SPIRALINGHIGHER':https://www.superhuman.app/register--Apply for 1:1 coaching with Sam:https://www.simplifyingsam.com/1on1coachingApply for 1:1 coaching with Gina:https://tinyurl.com/1on1coachingbteFollow Spiraling Higher:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/spiralinghigherFollow Simplifying Sam:TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@simplifying.samInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/simplifying.samFollow Gina:TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ginabourneInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/ginabourneFor all inquiries, email us at:[email protected] our FREE community: (We host free calls every month!)https://tinyurl.com/SpiralinghighercommunityTry the SUPERHUMAN app free for 6 weeks with code 'SPIRALINGHIGHER':https://www.superhuman.app/registerClear your money blocks & learn how to tap into true ABUNDANCE and become a money master:https://simplifyingsam.mykajabi.com/abundance-money-workshop-replay--Apply for 1:1 coaching with Sam:https://www.simplifyingsam.com/1on1coachingApply for 1:1 coaching with Gina:https://tinyurl.com/1on1coachingbteFollow Spiraling Higher:Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/spiralinghigherFollow Simplifying Sam:TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@simplifying.samInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/simplifying.samFollow Gina:TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@ginabourneInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/ginabourneFor all inquiries, email us at:[email protected]:1 Coaching or Book a Conversation with Ariel Niu - https://bit.ly/EnergyCoachingArielNiuWeekly Social Workshops - https://shop.beacons.ai/niu.views/SocializewithArielNiuMy YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@NiuViewsInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/niu.views/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@niu.viewsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands