Spiritual Psychology Coaching | How to heal from your partner cheating on you

In this week's episode, we have an anonymous caller who found her husband cheating on her five years ago and still hasn't been able to forgive him. She doesn't know how to stop their vicious cycle of arguments, upsets, and fights.  How to go from being a victim of her husbands choices to an empowered Goddess  How to break the codependency cyle How to reacting and start creating yourself to be the women you desire to be In this episode, we breakdown the difference between trying to manage a dysfunctional relationshiop vs. surrendering to a higher way.  We go through a divinely guided coaching session, assisting her to claiming her birthright of peace and liberation.     What you will learn in this episode: How to distinquish between traumas within your relationships vs. past traumas How to spot your limiting beliefs that are patterning into your relationship How to take responsibility for your emotional well-being      In this week’s podcast, we are diving into Sex, Love, & Recovery! In this episode, I'm talking about how to heal from your partner cheating on you ✨    Sex, Love, & Recovery Series... ⚡ Are you ready to break your negative relationship patterns? ⚡ Are you ready to live on spiritual principles and no longer make your partner wrong? ⚡ Are you ready to align with your highest vision and magnify your love frequency?    Anorexia Love Addiction: This is a pattern of completely stopping dating past the point of taking a healthy break from dating. It is similar to an anorexic who completely stops eating and, in turn, hurts themselves from nutrients they need. We need love and connection for mental health.  Disclosure: We do not believe in 'titles' of addiction or dysfunction. However, we make the distinction of titles for people to understand the human vicious cycles so they can rise above them.    Relationships can be challenging, even highly successful people struggle in there relationships. Approximately 9 out of 10 relationships have challenges and problems. Our culture has been ill-programmed with romantantic movies, dysfunctional families, and sexual objectification. In my opinion, we are spiritually bankrupt as a culture and our relationships are suffering because of it.    The coaching sessions on the podcast are not Spiritual Psyhology Coaching sessions nor are they E4 Trauma Method® sessions. The podcast is for call-in's and are not real coaching sessions. In Spiritual Psychology Coaching sessions we go into deep soul work, where we reprogram the subconscious mind via E4 Trauma Method® regressions and past-life regressions. We birthing the clients relative truth and discover their soul's purpose. Also, the guests on the podcast show are not in our membership or in our accredited coaching programs.    💎 Join Soulciété Membership  💎 Join the FREE Spiritual Awakening Manifesting Challenge  💎 Join my FREE Spiritual Community on Facebook 💎 Get Accredited as a Spiritual Psychology Coach & E4 Trauma Method® Facilitator   www.drerin.tv   Binge My Podcast Series: www.drerinshow.com Heal Your Trauma Series 52 Universal Law Series Money Breakthrough Series Spiritual Awakening Series Relationship Recovery Series Live Your Truth & Reprogram Your Mind Series Metaphysical Bible Series  Speaker 1 (00:00): Welcome to the Dr. Erin podcast. This is a top spiritual psychology coach podcast to inspire and teach you how to transform your trauma, birth, your soul's purpose, and manifest your dreams. Hi, I'm Dr. Erin. Dr. Divinity, I'm committed to bringing you the best coaching tips, spiritual advice, trauma healing, and metaphysical recovery secrets. I'm here to help you monetize your spiritual gifts and love your life. I want you to know that I've been exactly where you are and I believe in you together we're awakening the world, okay? Today we have an anonymous caller, which is so courageous. I know that many of you out there are suffering in your sex lover relationship world. I personally suffered greatly for many years in codependency, and it became very shamed. It was almost embarrassing of the ups and downs I was having in my relationships after doing so much work and I was so confused. And so the intention of this call today is to really dive deep and have somebody courageously open their heart into actual details so that we can all relate and actually get acknowledged because all of us have had dark moments and dysfunctional moments in our relationship. So today, welcome, welcome, welcome. Come on in. Thank you. How are you doing? Speaker 2 (01:19): I'm good. Speaker 1 (01:20): In our application, we talk about the different distinctions of narcissistic abuse, love or sex addiction, codependency or dysfunction, cheating or lying, alcoholism or drug addiction, financial or money abuse. And you put all of the above, which is so awesome. I just love people when they get like, oh my gosh, let's get into the mess of all of this. So if you wouldn't mind, would you mind getting into some of the actual details? What is the current upset right now for you? Speaker 2 (01:46): Okay. So I think the biggest thing here is, okay, so five years ago I found text messages between my husband and a couple of other women. And then, so the reason why I had listed all of that, all of the above was because these things kind of came up. After that. It was like I kind of noticed, I don't know, the abuse and the sex addiction and all these other things, and then the I'm not enoughness and all of that. So yeah, so basically it kind of boils down to five years ago that day when I found those messages. Speaker 1 (02:25): Wow. So five years, let's just get the impact of that for a minute. Just holding all the people that are suffering out there that have gone through different things of cheating line or big upsets or big traumas within a relationship. And so what we're going to do today and kind of breaking down from a universal law perspective and from the truth of who you are, okay? The truth is that you are none of these things. You're not the circumstances of your relationship. You are not somebody that's been cheated on. You're none of that. You're a divine spiritual being. But what we want to take a look at is the human side. So how's this actually been patterned out? Meaning did you put around this? We recognize that all of relationships are really the projection and the reflection of the limited beliefs within ourselves. So how's this been? What meaning have you put on this for yourself? Speaker 2 (03:12): I guess I would say the meaning I've put on myself was that I'm not good enough or I'm not enough. Shortly after this happened, so at the time I was doing home daycare, and then shortly after going through all of this with my husband, I closed my daycare. I was not happy doing it anyway, and then I was like, I hired a spiritual business coach. So I was like, I'm going to do my own thing. And I never finished it. Since then, I've just never followed through with anything. I kept feeling like, I can't do it. I'm not enough, I'm not skilled enough. And then since then, yes, I've just kind of been a stay at home mom. I don't make any income, so it's starting to play out okay. I feel like I'm a burden on him now because the financial stress has been mostly is put on him, so he's feeling like, yeah, so that's another piece of it.