date for lifestyle, not love - the secret to your lover girl era

Buy Merch: https://shopisla.co Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Get the Dating Course: https://manifestelle.com/high-value-dating-protocol Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this in-depth and eye-opening episode of the Spoiled Girlie Support Group podcast, host Elle introduces listeners to a novel concept – dating for lifestyle, not love. She begins by explaining the idea behind this perspective, emphasizing that it's about aligning with a partner whose lifestyle mirrors your desired reality. This could be anything from a slow, homesteading life in the country to a hyper-luxurious lifestyle. Elle discusses the potential pitfalls of entering a relationship with the hope of changing your partner's lifestyle to suit your own. She underscores the importance of respecting both your own needs and your partner's established lifestyle. In an empowering segment, she calls on her listeners to remember their intrinsic worth and to avoid settling for less in their relationships. She also delves into societal expectations and norms that often put unnecessary pressure on women. Elle challenges these norms and explores the idea of playing life on 'easy mode' by making smart, beneficial choices for oneself. In addition, Elle discusses the criticism leveled against the idea of dating for lifestyle, debunking misconceptions and affirming the validity of women wanting fairness and satisfaction in their relationships. Throughout the episode, Elle's message is clear and powerful: love yourself enough to choose a lifestyle, not just love, in your relationships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking a fresh perspective on dating and relationships.