i was a pickme… and i regret it + fear of being seen | reacting to “i hate roses” pickme

Get the SGSG hoodie: https://shopisla.co Subscribe to the Weekly ManifesTEA Newsletter: https://manifestelle.substack.com Follow me on IG and Tiktok: manifestelle In this episode, Elle discusses her past experiences as a "pickme" – a term she uses to describe women who compromise their own desires to cater to others. She shares her journey of self-discovery, self-acceptance, and her struggle with jealousy and envy. Elle talks about the importance of acknowledging one's desires and not letting jealousy stand in the way of achieving them. She emphasizes the importance of being truthful to oneself, and how it led her to a path of fulfillment and satisfaction. Elle also discusses the detrimental impact of being the target of jealousy and how she learned to navigate through it. The episode is a candid reflection of Elle's personal experiences and a call to action for women to embrace their true desires without fear of judgement or envy.