TNC "The Perfect Mate" ( TNG S5E21)
Star Trek The Next Conversation - a semi funny trashfire of a Star Trek podcast currently about TV's Deep Space Nine DS9 (or TNG) - A podcast by Matt Mira and Andrew Secunda
Matt and Andy both refuse to change in order to be compatible with one another. Andy is a hopeless romantic and Matt finds the whole thing dull. Episode discussion begins at 36:00