78. Assuming the Best in Others

Have you been frustrated by others who don't seem to be trying hard enough? Or that they could/should be doing better than they are? Then this episode is for you! In this solo episode, Kristen discusses the concept of generous assumptions, inspired by Dr. Brene Brown's research on positive intent. She explores how our perceptions of others can be influenced by our own judgments and assumptions, and emphasizes the importance of extending kindness and compassion to others. The conversation delves into the challenges of believing that others are doing their best, the role of self-compassion, and the necessity of setting boundaries to maintain healthy relationships. Kristen encourages listeners to practice positive intent in their daily interactions and to reflect on their own assumptions about others. Takeaways Generous assumptions can change how we perceive others. Believing in positive intent fosters empathy and understanding. Our judgments of others often reflect our own insecurities. Practicing kindness can improve communication and relationships. Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining compassion. Self-compassion allows us to extend grace to others. Assuming the best can lead to a more positive mindset. Brene Brown's research highlights the importance of positive intent. We often give ourselves more benefit of the doubt than others. Start small when practicing positive assumptions about others. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Generous Assumptions 03:49 Understanding Positive Intent 06:54 The Challenge of Assumptions 09:56 Practicing Kindness and Curiosity 12:48 Setting Boundaries with Compassion 17:35 Practical Applications of Positive Intent Learn more about coaching with Kristen: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.coachwithkristen.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/coachwithkristen⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/kristen.odegaard.coaching/⁠⁠⁠⁠