My Wife Says "Stop Making It About You." What Should I Do?

Strong Men Strong Marriages - A podcast by Mike Frazier, MD - Tuesdays

You’re focused on becoming a better husband and father. You’re serving your wife, trying to listen, trying to do the five love languages… all of it. But, your wife still says things like “You’re making it about you.” This can be very frustrating, because you feel like your soul focus is on her! But, here’s the thing. If your goal is to be a better husband… that still is about you. What you want to try instead is to spend time each day getting into your wife’s shoes at a deep level. ...