“Why don’t I ever get to decide?” Helping an Integrity Kid Feel Heard

You don’t hear me! is the emotional cry underneath the explosions and irrational pleadings of 8 ½ yr. old Jude. His parents have come a long way in being patient, but they get stuck and threaten punishment when he refuses to do what he has to do. They fear he will push others away with his demands, will always have to be right, and will have no friends. Renee and Gary have recorded episodes of Jude’s raging that are included. When we discuss how to respond to the need under his screaming, Ren...