Why You MUST Hurt Your Ex (If You Want Them Back)
The Art of Love Podcast - A podcast by Lucia - Mondays
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When someone is trying to get their ex back, they often make the mistake of thinking they have to be "nice" to them, in order to get them back. Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why being nice may actually backfire and why you have to "hurt" your ex in order to get them back.