#566: How to Be More Liked and Likable

Podcast #566   HOW TO BE MORE LIKED AND LIKABLE When you like yourself, others will like you more. Increasing your likability factor can open doors of opportunity, expand favor in your life, and make you appear more confident to others. But there's a difference between being likable and caring too much what people think. This episode will help you find the courage to be disliked, as well as how to increase your overall likeability, which all starts with first liking yourself. Listen to this for 19 ways to be more likeable, while also releasing some of the pressure you are putting on yourself about whether or not people like you. In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're coaching on: * 19 ways to be more likeable * Why likeability matters  * The difference between being likeable and caring too much what people think * Finding the upside in the courage to be disliked LISTENER OF THE WEEK: Finnegan.  CONFIDENCEFEST  Confidence in Your Decisions | Workshop Confidence for Your Kids | Workshop Confidence in Your Potential | Workshop Confidence in Your Friendships and Relationships | Workshop Confidence in Your Work | Workshop Get into the program so you don't miss out at www.collegeofconfidence.com REVIEW OF THE WEEK: HOW TO BE MORE LIKEABLE - SOME BASICS: Being more likable is a valuable social skill that can help you build better relationships and connections with others. Here are some tips to help you become more likable: * Smile: A genuine smile is one of the most universally likable expressions. It makes you appear friendly and approachable. * Active Listening: Show genuine interest in what others are saying. Give them your full attention, maintain eye contact, and nod or provide verbal cues to show that you're engaged in the conversation. * Be Positive: Maintain a positive attitude and try to see the bright side of things. People are drawn to those who radiate positivity and optimism. * Empathy: Practice empathy by trying to understand and relate to the feelings and perspectives of others. Show that you care about their emotions and experiences. * Use Names: Address people by their names when speaking to them. It creates a sense of personal connection. * Body Language: Pay attention to your body language. Maintain open and welcoming postures. Avoid crossing your arms or appearing disinterested. * Be Genuine: Authenticity is key. Be yourself and let your true personality shine through. People appreciate sincerity and can often spot insincerity. * Compliments: Give sincere compliments when appropriate. Recognize and appreciate the qualities and achievements of others. * Remember Details: Make an effort to remember details about people's lives, such as their interests, birthdays, or important events.