Why CONFIDENCE Isn't Enough: You Need COMPETENCE in Love TOO | Matthew Hussey EP 628

Matthew Hussey argues that the biggest mistake in dating is feeling entitled to love without self-improvement, as building relationship competence requires effort comparable to professional development. Recalling a painful breakup where he was deemed boring despite early admiration for his ambition, Hussey realized individual strengths that attract partners fail to sustain intimacy without complementary qualities providing depth. Though confident in business, Hussey discovered even core talents rely on balance, creativity and vulnerability to prevent the boredom of one-dimensionality in affairs of the heart. Ultimately, Hussey emphasizes pairing cockiness with caring at appropriate moments to demonstrate the unique range of traits that turn initial intrigue into lasting mutual addiction.