The Divorce Initiation: In the Moment Insights with Hillary Rubin on The Divorce and Beyond Podcast #321

This week on Divorce & Beyond with Susan Guthrie, Hillary Rubin, a seasoned master coach and divorcing mom, candidly shares lessons learned as she moves through the divorce process. This episode is a beacon of in-the-moment information designed to reassure you that you are not alone in your experiences.  Facing the disorienting fear of divorce, Hillary sought support, devised a plan, and took the brave step forward. She emerged as a single mother, crafting a new home and life for herself and her son. Now, she shares her wisdom, offering soulful guidance to soon-to-be or newly divorced co-parents.  Join us as Hillary imparts valuable insights on changing mindsets, fostering certainty, and caring for oneself and one's children through the maze of divorce. Topics and Golden Nuggets include What Hillary means when she says, “Divorce is an initiation.”   Why flipping the narrative can help you move through challenges you may face Ask for what you need and seek support - people are around to help you. Finding a place of calm can be an imperative part of the divorce process  Hillary shares how her son has been her North Star, guiding her through her divorce journey **************************************** About this week's special guest: Hillary Rubin Hillary Rubin, Master Coach: Shifting the Divorce Narrative Putting Peace & Kids First As You Reclaim Your Life Three years ago, Hillary lived in the same house as her husband, trapped in constant conflict and felt numb with the fear about getting divorced. It was the most disorienting experience of her life. She felt like she failed herself and her son but she made a BRAVE decision.  As a coach who became a stay-at-home mom, she sought support, created a plan, and took the initiative to file for divorce. She found the strength to move out, created a home and started anew as a single mother at 50.  Now she offers common sense soulful guidance around divorce for soon-to-be or newly divorced co-parents seeking to ditch uncertainty & make a plan for their lives keeping their kids as their north star.  She'll show you how to change your mind-set, create certainty as you take care of yourself along with your kids through this challenging time in your lives.  Website: http://www.hillaryrubin.com  Free Training: https://hillaryrubin.com/free-mini-training/  Hillary on Instagram @hillaryrubin *****************************************Episodes and Resources mentioned in this episode: The Divorce & Beyond website is a great place to visit if you want more support and information as you move through your divorce and beyond.  We have links to all the latest episodes, show notes, and the most recent episode. Plus, you can sign up for the weekly newsletter, freebies, and downloadable resources.  Visit DivorceandBeyondPod.com today!  ***************************************** THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSOR: SOBERLINK Thriving in divorce and beyond means not having to worry about the safety of your children when it comes to co-parenting. With alcohol abuse on the rise, many co-parents are turning to the system committed to providing proof, protection, and peace of mind. Soberlink’s alcohol monitoring system is the most convenient, reliable, and reasonable way for a parent to provide evidence that they are not drinking during parenting time. Soberlink’s real-time alerts, facial recognition, and tamper detection ensure the integrity of each test, so you can be confident your kids are with a sober parent. With Soberlink, judges rest assured that your child is safe, attorneys get court-admissible evidence of sobriety, and both parents have empowerment and peace of mind.  Pull back the curtain on the mysteries of parenting time and trust The Experts in Remote Alcohol Monitoring Technology™ to keep you informed and your kids safe and secure. To download the addiction and children resource page that I developed with Soberlink, visit www.Soberlink.com/Susan  ******************************