Ep109: Nice Haters with Stefanie Shaughnessy

  We all have friends, right? The good, the bad, and the nice haters… Can you tell which among them are which?   In this episode, Heather brings in Stefanie Shaugnessy to talk all about friendship, relationships, support community, navigating the world of business and success with the people around you, and the nice haters which you will have a clear understanding of after listening to this episode.   Stefanie Shaughnessy is a former law enforcement officer turned entrepreneur, a suicide prevention advocate, a brand ambassador, instructor and coach at Atmana Academy. She is a wife, a mother, and a long-time friend of Heather.   Tune in ‘til the end to connect with Stefanie and support her plexus and her podcast as well called The Alpha Energy Collective Podcast. Links are also provided below. Enjoy! Listen to the Episode Now:   00:27 Heather introduces her guest and her long-time friend, Stefanie   02:48 Stefanie talks about her background and what brought her to this point   04:42 What it means to have a support community   07:04 The nice hater profile   11:12 The hard time vs. the good time friends   14:11 The people there for you for the right/not right reasons   23:13 You have a conscious choice of who gets to come into your life   27:58 Let go of the people that are not good for you and the self-blame   33:46 Know the red flags   35:14 The competitive nice hater   36:13 The passive aggressive nice hater   37:35 The concerned nice hater   40:27 The “I just want to help you” nice hater   46:00 The two-faced nice hater   48:20 Life goes on no matter what   52:11 How to connect with Stefanie   53:52 Wrapping up Soul Stirring Quotes:   “We're more than just our professional career. We're more than just a mom. We're more than just a sister or we're more than just a friend.”   “What I really appreciate about community and connection and I think more women are realizing it is the secret weapon to success. It really is. Having true support, having true friendship.”   “I'm actually thoroughly convinced within myself that if you don't have some type of supportive community, very few people are going to make it.”   “Hard time friends, good time friends. They're not the same friends.”   “You have to start making conscious choices to move in specific directions.”   “We should strive to be kind not nice.”   “Nice is a fake kind. Kindness is something you can’t fake.”   “How do you know you have a real friend? Two things. One, you can share successes and they are genuinely happy for you. And the second thing is you can tell them very bad news and they will be sad with you.”   “You've got to cultivate the life that you want to cultivate and know that you get to make conscious decisions about who comes into your life. And as you take that ownership, you will attract those soul sister friends.” Links Mentioned:   Take Stefanie’s plexus quiz here: https://join.plexusworldwide.com/stefanieshaughnessy/quiz Listen to Stefanie’s podcast The Alpha Energy Collective Podcast here: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DX0godjQRnPj9SxV5AicX Join The Atmana Intuitive Coach Collective Facebook Group here: https://www.facebook.com/groups/atmanaintuitivecoachcollective  Join the next Live Your Purpose, Launch Your Practice Workshop here: http://www.intuitivecoachlaunch.com/ Connect with Stefanie:   Website: stefanieshaughnessy.com Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/stefanie-shaughnessy-b8ba9479/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mrsshag/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/stefanie.shaughnessy/