Why Do We Fear Being Ordinary? [Carl Richards]

Imagine your own funeral. Your friends are asked to describe you. And they say: “You know what? He / she lived a really ordinary life”. The thought of it makes me shiver. But why? Join Carl and I as we explore why we should celebrate being ordinary, why not everything has to be heroic and what it actually means if you say “I want my life to matter”. Learn more about Carl: Connect with Carl on ⁠Twitter⁠ Connect with Carl on ⁠LinkedIn⁠ Subscribe to Carl’s newsletter Behaviour Gap Read Carl’s book The Behaviour Gap Read Carl’s column in the New York Times References from the show: When Things Fall Apart by Pema Chodron Rick Rubin talks to Anderson Cooper about his secret for success Rick Rubin on the “On Being” Podcast Everything is spiritual by Rob Bell Essentialism by Greg McKeown Join an upcoming group coaching cohort: Are you looking to ask deep, introspective and provocative questions about your own life (with Khe and likeminded peers) ⁠⁠⁠⁠Apply today⁠⁠⁠⁠ THE MOST UNIQUE PRODUCTIVITY COURSE ON THE INTERNET Supercharge your Productivity is the only course that connects the pursuit of productivity to life’s larger questions so you can design a system that works for you. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Enroll Now⁠⁠⁠⁠ BECOME A RADREADER: 📩 ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join 45,000+ ambitious professionals⁠⁠⁠⁠ for our weekly essays on productivity, money and career. ⁠⁠⁠⁠🐦 Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠🎥 TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠📸 Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠💼 LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠🌍 The Blog⁠⁠⁠⁠ ABOUT RADREADS RadReads is an online education business that helps ambitious professionals lead more productive, examined and joyful lives. RadReads provides guides, coaching, and trainings to more than 45,000 high-performers to help them gain back free time, scale their impact, and make their little dent in the universe. ABOUT KHE HY Khe Hy is the founder of RadReads and father of two. Khe spent 15 years working on Wall Street and was one of the youngest Managing Directors at BlackRock. He's been called Oprah for Millennials by CNN and the Wall Street Guru by Bloomberg and his work has been featured in the Wall Street Journal, TedX, Business Insider, Barrons, Time Magazine and Quartz.